LOVING SOMEONE WITH DID

The Book has Launched!!!!

I am beyond excited that after 22 years of loving my DID and 2 years of writing and editing, I have been able to present my book to the world.
While the book may not be helpful to everyone, my hope is that it may encourage some, inform others and prepare yet others.

I am interested to hearing your thoughts on the book, so please comment below.

Click here to get your copy on Amazon


Tom

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