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What about Sex with your DID partner?

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!!!!Age and Trigger Warning!!!! this conversation is not for young people – this is about mature relationships ………………. If your loved one was sexually abused as a child, it can make a physical relationship difficult. Dissociative Identity Disorder adds another layer of complexity to this issue. At times your spouse may be completely unable to engage in intimacy while other times they may be very interested.   Your loved one’s responses may range from prudish to adventurous. It’s in these times that we have to be as alert as we can. The reality is that each part, or alter will bring it’s own set of challenges into the bedroom. Here are a couple of things to think about in this area.: Protect your loved one's child alters Never and I mean, NEVER be intimate with one of the child alters. Since many of our loved ones were horribly abused as children, we have to try to guard them and ourselves as much as possible from adding to that abuse. You wil...
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12 Ways to Build Trust with Someone Who has DID

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As we all know, trust cannot be demanded, it cannot be forced and it cannot be bought. Trust is built one day at a time and one interaction at a time. But trust can be lost in a single moment because of one action or one poor decision. While trust can be a tricky landscape to navigate in the best of relationships, those who love someone with Dissociative Identity Disorder battle can face more difficult terrain to navigate. Often, to no fault of our own, some of our loved one’s parts have no trust toward anyone, not even us. For those parts who do give us their trust, we want to be careful not to betray. It can be painful to overcome the backlash if we do break trust with our Significant Other’s parts. Here are some ways that I believe can help you build and maintain trust with your loved one’s parts. Do what you say When you say something, make sure that you also live by it. Be consistent always, showing your loved one that you are a man (or woman) of your word. Hono...
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DID and Compassion Fatigue

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DID and Compassion Fatigue I didn’t even know this was a thing until just recently. My wife recently confronted me, she felt that I was losing compassion toward her and others. Initially, I gave it little thought, but then I started to hear myself say things that lacked compassion. Compassion Fatigue (CF) is the result of stress caused by caring for traumatized and suffering people. CF is most commonly found in people who are providing elder care, in the nursing profession, working in child-welfare or in people working with trauma patients. The American Institute of Stress , describes this acute stress (CT) as “vicarious traumatization” because it’s caused by working with those who are suffering from the consequences of a traumatic event. The symptoms of compassion fatigue can include: ·       Loss of compassion for others ·       Loss of ability to function ·       Increased stress...
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